The next 90 days are going to be mind-changing for you too. Thanks for this great article. I'm spending the next 90 days recovering from major surgery. My goal is to be better by Christmas. I won't be productive, but I can put myself in the right headspace and try to stay positive. I will be surrounding myself with very different people: surgeons, nurses, physios, carers. Good luck being a Dad, you're going to be great!